Hi
1 month ago i lost my beautiful baby boy at 36weeks and 6 days due to a umbilical cord accident. we are doing alright, i have good days and very bad days where i feel really empty, sad and i miss him so much. my husband and i are ready to try again but we know nothing will replace him, i am really afraid to conceive next time or if i do, worried if this could repeat.
has anyone had a successful pregnancy after a stillbirth and how soon one can try
.... We lost our daughter at 37 weeks on 12/27. I was told to wait 6 months for my mental health, but that physically we were clear to start as soon as my period came back. It has been about 5 months since our loss, and I am almost 3 months pregnant now.
Everything has been healthy and fine so far, but I will admit that I am having a very hard time bonding at all with this baby. I keep feeling like it isn't real and waiting for something bad to happen. A lot of people in my birth club are making these cute pregnancy announcements, and I feel like I can't do that- just in case. I feel like I want to hide it from everyone until the baby is actually born. I was really bummed out when my son figured it out and I had to tell my kids- especially so early on. I went in for the doppler on Tuesday. I had declined it at my last visit because one of my triggers is the silent doppler noise. So, we heard the heartbeat and I just layed there and felt numb and blank. No emotions. The midwife was positive and said things are looking great. All I could say was "It's too early." She hugged me.
So, I'm going to say that waiting may be better emotionally. I really don't know for sure because we didn't wait as long as they recommended.
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